Bette Zane Thompson

Bette Zane Thompson passed away peacefully surrounded by the love of her family on February 14, 2026. She was a resilient woman. She had a big heart and was always thought of by others as a classy lady.

Bette married James Parmenter, Sr in 1966 and became the proud mom to Jim (Gaby) and Ross (Katie) Parmenter. She was a hard worker and provider during tough times. Her grandchildren, Maycie, Audrey, Jackson and Charlotte were the greatest joy of her life.

She was born November 19, 1946 in San Jose, California and raised with her three siblings, Vicki, Karen and (preceded in death) Mike Ross. She moved over the hill to Felton after graduating from Lincoln High School, along with her large group of friends, and started their families together in the San Lorenzo Valley.

Bette is survived by her husband, Alan Thompson, whom she married September 28, 1985. He had two children, Stephanie (Glen) MacWhorter -their son Alex - and Darren Thompson. They enjoyed 40 years of marriage.

She worked at Dominican Hospital before retiring when her grandchildren were born.

Bette and Al enjoyed camping, traveling in their trailer, skiing, visiting National Parks, watching baseball and spending time with family and friends.

Celebrating Christmas Eve was always a highlight of the year. She was always up for happy hour with her boys and their friends. She was a great cook and was known for her sweet tooth and loved to share that with others. Her happy place was tending to her garden.

Bette leaves behind many close friends and family - all of whom she loved and touched deeply. She is greatly missed. A celebration of life will be held May 23rd.

Published in Press Banner · April 20, 2026