Dale Aaron Amtower

It is with great sorrow that we share the passing of Dale Aaron Amtower, who died peacefully on the evening of July 12, 2025.

Born into a family that carried him around the world during his childhood, Dale grew up with a curious spirit and a love of laughter. He learned early that music and humor could connect people everywhere he went, and these gifts became central to who he was.

Dale was the devoted partner and husband to Ann for 41 years. Together they built a life filled with celebration, joy, and plenty of jokes. Ann's career in real estate is busy, and Dale was always at her side, fixing things, easing stress with a quick quip, and cheering her on with the humor and warmth that became his signature.

After moving to Healdsburg thirty-five years ago, Ann and Dale quickly became part of the town's fabric. Dale loved everything about Healdsburg-the people, the weather, the sports, the food and wine, Lake Sonoma, and especially the dancing and music in the square. But above all, they shared a deep love of music, supporting both the school music programs and the Healdsburg Jazz Festival.

Dale's proudest role was as a father to Nicholas and Kathleen. He loved their daily conversations, cheered for their successes, and lit up with joy when Kathleen married Andy Unzueta, who quickly became part of the family.

A trumpet player and longtime member of the Healdsburg Community Band, he played his signature rendition of "Happy Birthday" with flair. Whether at the beach, a family party, or rehearsal, music gave shape to so many of the moments people shared with him.

He was also an avid reader, which made him a fountain of knowledge. He was always ready to pull an unexpected historical fact out of his hat.

For 45 years, Dale poured his skill and care into Amtower Painting, leaving behind not just beautiful work but respect and camaraderie from those he worked with.

Dale's humor was both dry and mischievous. He could keep a straight face just long enough before breaking into laughter and taking everyone along with him. His ability to make people smile never wavered, even in hard times.

Dale is survived by his beloved wife, Ann; son, Nicholas; daughter, Kathleen; son-in-law, Andy Unzueta; brother, Richard Earl Amtower III (Pat); and sister, Vicki Amtower. He was a cherished uncle and great-uncle to many and good friend to a wide community.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Richard Earl Amtower II and Aileen Amtower; and by his adored niece, Laurel Amtower.

A celebration of Dale's life will be held on Sunday, September 21, 2025 from 3:00–6:00 p.m. at Alexander Valley Hall, 5512 CA-128, Geyserville, CA 95441.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to Reach for Home in Sonoma County or simply share a joke or a song in Dale's memory, to carry forward the humor and music he loved so deeply.

Published in Healdsburg Tribune · September 2, 2025